02 March 2026

Adjusting to Life Alone - A Very Vulnerable Post

I almost didn’t share this. I began writing it just for myself, hoping it would help me process what I’m going through, what I'm feeling. But if there are other mothers out there going through the same thing, perhaps knowing they’re not alone will help them too.

I have been a mother for forty-six, almost forty-seven years. Over those years, I have watched my children grow up, leave school, find jobs, meet their spouses, and leave home to live their own lives. I missed them when they left and I shed many tears, but it’s a natural part of life.

I always thought I would be all right when all of my children left home because I’ve always enjoyed my alone time. It wasn’t until my youngest daughter left that I realised maybe I wouldn’t be okay — that enjoying alone time is very different from being alone.

When she left home just over three years ago, I went through a grieving process. Her leaving was softened by the fact that a few months earlier, my eldest granddaughter — who was twenty-five at the time — had moved in. I missed my daughter terribly. She had lived at home with me for twenty-nine years. But having my granddaughter there helped ease the sadness.

Now, after living with me for the past three years, my granddaughter has moved out. Apart from her dog, whom I’m looking after for a few months while she settles into her new life overseas, I am alone.

It didn’t really hit me until the next day. This was it. She was gone, and she wasn’t coming back to live here again.

I didn’t expect to miss her so quickly. I thought it would take a week or two, the way it did when she went away on holidays or housesat for people. I was surprised by how fast it happened.

I felt like I was grieving — but how can you grieve for someone who has simply moved on to a new chapter in their life? I always thought grief only happened when you lost someone.

I had heard of Empty Nest Syndrome but never felt the need to look into it until now. I had no idea that grieving was such a big part of it.

I don’t know what to do with myself. I want to do everything, but nothing. I have so much pent-up energy that I feel like I could run a marathon, yet I also just want to curl up in a ball and cry. I have no appetite, so I’m not eating properly. I want to sleep, but I can’t — as soon as I lie down, my mind starts racing. My anxiety is so bad at times that I feel like I’m suffocating.

It’s only been a few days since she left, and I now understand that what I’m feeling is part of the grieving process many parents go through when their last child leaves home. But knowing that doesn’t make it hurt any less. This feeling — like there’s a huge hole in my chest — is awful.

I know it won’t last. I know it will take time to adjust to this new season of life. But as anyone who has grieved knows, when you’re in it, it feels like it’s never going to end. 

I’m also looking ahead a few months to when my granddaughter’s dog leaves to join her overseas. I’ll grieve that loss too — obviously in a different way — but having her here has softened the blow of my granddaughter leaving.

People have suggested I get a dog of my own, which is a lovely idea. But pets are expensive. There’s the cost of desexing, yearly vaccinations, food, and the possibility of an unexpected trip to the emergency vet. I’ve seen how much it has cost my children when they’ve needed emergency care for their pets. It’s not cheap, and it’s not something I can afford.

Four of my five children now live interstate, and pets do tie you down. Yes, I could use a boarding kennel when I visit them, but that’s another added expense. As much as I love the idea of having a dog, it just isn’t a feasible option for me.

I’m sure that if I had a loving, supportive partner, this transition might feel easier. But even on my own, I am not without strength. I have raised five children, weathered many seasons of life, and I know that I can grow through this one as well.

If there are any mothers — especially single mothers — reading this, do you have any advice? How did you cope with being an empty nester? I’d truly love to hear from you. Let’s talk about it. Let’s support each other through this.

I’ll be back soon with another post — hopefully a happier one.

Until then stay safe and be kind to each other. xo Janette.



22 February 2026

Gluten Free Products I'm Happy to Recommend

 I have a page dedicated to gluten free and dairy free products that I have tried and enjoyed, and I do keep it updated. Recently I have tried some new gluten free products that I really liked and thought that I would give them a post of their own before adding them to the other page.


I had seen Warburton's Tiger bread in Coles for a while now, but every time I ordered it, it was out of stock. Just recently I discovered that they have other products in their range and decided to give them a try. 


I tried the Super Soft white rolls first and I was surprised by how much like gluten bread they were. Soft, and pillowy, and they come pre sliced. As far as I'm aware Coles is the only Australian supermarket to stock Warburton's. 

Next is Coles Finest Grain Free Granola . It's a combination of almonds, pecans, seeds, Australian honey and toasted coconut. While it's delicious as is you could add dried fruit for a little more sweetness or do what I do and have it with fruit yoghurt. 

The next two are both from Aldi. Belmont Biscuit Co's Scotch Finger and Shortbread Cream biscuits.

 They are delicious and you would never now that they were gluten free.

There you have it—five excellent gluten-free products that I am genuinely pleased with and happy to recommend.

I'll be back soon with a grocery haul and a meal plan soon. Until then stay safe and be kind to each other, Janette xo



03 February 2026

2026 A Low Spend Year - January Finances

Like a lot of other people, I’m finding it increasingly difficult to make ends meet nowadays. With the ever-increasing prices of life’s essentials—food, electricity, and rent or mortgage payments—our dollar does not go as far as it used to. So, I’ve decided that this year (and possibly the years to come) will be a very low-spend year. It’s more important than ever that I rein in my expenses, as at the end of this month, for the first time ever, I will be living alone and will have to cover the cost of everything myself.

The year did not start out very well, with an unexpected visit to the dentist for a sore tooth. I was going to wait until my next scheduled checkup at the beginning of April, but because the pain didn’t dissipate, I thought it would be wise to have it checked—and I’m so glad I did. It turned out that I had the beginnings of an infection at the root of the tooth. Thankfully, I have private health insurance, and I ended up paying only $160.40 AUD. In total, my health costs this month were my second-biggest expense, costing me $413.60.

My largest expense for the month—and the one that shocked me—was my grocery bill. I spent $548.38. For one person! Absolutely shocking.

Going forward I am going to have to be far more careful about my spending and with that in mind I have set myself a budget. My largest expense every month will be my rent. I am very lucky that my rent is quite low compared to the average rents in South Australia, but it accounts for more than one-third of the money I receive. I should mention here that I will be living on a pension with no other source of income, and my only debt is for my hearing aids which set me back $57.88 every fortnight and I will continue to pay this for another twelve months.  

My budget is divided into three categories. The first is household expenses, which cover things like rent, electricity, and water usage. The second category is personal bills, which include donations, TV subscription fees, internet, and a yearly mobile phone charge. The third category is my snowball accounts, which cover things like personal care, birthday and Christmas gifts, clothing and shoes, health care, an emergency fund. In addition, 10% of my income is allocated to long-term savings. I also have snowball accounts for books and DVDs, and gardening. These accounts only receive a small amount, which is automatically set aside every fortnight when I get paid. I will also have a small amount of personal spending money.

I haven’t forgotten about groceries. My monthly grocery budget will be $440.00. It’s tight, but I think it’s doable.

Lately, I’ve been watching Frugal Queen in France on YouTube, and I’ve decided to follow her approach. Of my $440.00 grocery budget:

  • $260.00 will be for full-price groceries

  • $88.00 will be set aside each month to check weekly for discounted items I regularly use, which will form my stockpile

  • The remaining amount will be used to buy fresh fruit, vegetables, and bread as needed during the month. Any money that is left over at the end of the month, (one can hope), will either be rolled over into the next month's grocery budget or be added to the emergency fund.


So, there you have it. I wrote this post to not only keep myself accountable, but also in the hope that it might help others who are struggling. If managing money feels hard right now, you’re not alone—and I hope this post offers some encouragement.

I will be back at the end of next month to let you know how I went. 

Until then stay safe and be kind to each other, Janette xo

31 March 2025

Going, Going, Gone

And this time next year, there will be a shiny new Aldi store on the site.

There have been the usual concerns about the need for another supermarket, considering that there are already six supermarkets in our local council area, including an Aldi store, all of which perform well. However, with the ever-growing population in my town and the surrounding area, an additional supermarket would be beneficial.


I'm really looking forward to having an Aldi store in town. Although the other store is only a twenty-minute walk from my house, there is no public transport nearby, and as I don't drive this makes bringing groceries home difficult. The new store, however, is just a three-minute walk from a bus stop, making things much easier.


Until next time, stay safe and be kind to each other, Janette.

10 March 2025

What To Sow or Plant This Month

If you live in a temperate climate like I do and you haven’t already, March is the month to sow seeds for the winter garden.

Photo courtesy of Louisjos via Pixabay

There is still time to plant out basil and amaranth before the weather gets too cold. It’s also the time to plant out garlic cloves and chickory, horseradish, and Chinese (Wombok) Cabbage. Plant leek seedlings now as well.

You can sow burdock, carrots, corn salad (Lamb’s ear or mache), radish, rocket, shallots, and turnips directly in the garden.

Seeds that need to be sown in pots or seedling trays are members of the brassica family such as broccoli, cabbage, cauliflower, collards, kale, pak choy, mizuna, mustard greens, swedes. Broad beans, chives, coriander, dill, endive, fennel, lettuce, New Zealand spinach, parsley, peas, silver beet (Swiss chard), spinach, and spring onions can all be sown now as well.   



This year, I’m keeping things simple and sticking to some of my tried and true favorites. If you’re looking to plant something reliable and delicious, you might want to consider these:

Broccoli: A fantastic source of vitamins and super versatile in the kitchen.

Snow Peas & Sugar Snap Peas: Perfect for snacking straight from the vine! They are perfect in a stir fry and add a sweet crunch to a salad. 

Carrots: I can’t imagine my vegetable garden without them. They never disappoint! Plus, there’s something so satisfying about pulling fresh carrots from the ground. 

Garlic, Onions, Shallots, and Leeks: Garlic is an essential ingredient for me; it’s my go-to aromatic. While I’m not a fan of onions due to their strong flavor, my daughter and son-in-law are currently living with me and use onions in nearly every meal. As a result, I will be planting some this year. Although I don’t enjoy onions, I do appreciate the flavors that leeks and shallots add to a dish, so I will find space for them in my garden as well.

Lettuce: The cooler months are the only time I can grow lettuce, so I take full advantage of having it in my garden.

Are you thinking about starting a winter vegetable garden this year? If so, what do you have planned? Are you excited to try out varieties that you've never grown before?

Until next time, happy gardening.

Janette.




02 March 2025

Getting to Know Me

This post has been sitting in draft form for over a year, so I thought it was time to answer the questions and post it. 


1. What was the last thing you ate?
Baked beans on toast.

2. Do you sleep naked?
Not since I had children.

3. The worst physical pain you ever been in? 
Giving birth to my children, although having shingles was no party either.

4. Favourite place you’ve ever been? 
Of the places I have visited so far Kangaroo Island would have to be a favourite.

5. How late did you stay up last night?
 Between 10.30pm and 11.00pm. 

6. If you could move somewhere else, where would you move to? 
My ancestry is for the most part English, Irish and Scottish. There is a smattering of other ethnicities as well, but if I was going to move from Australia, it would more than likely be somewhere in Great Britain. 

7. Christmas or New Year? 

Christmas! At least it used to be, but it has become so commercialised now that it’s lost some of its magic for me. Last year Christmas decoration were in the stores in September.


8. When was the last time you cried? 
Finding out my daughter No. 2 was pregnant with her much longed for first child. I cried like a baby. No pun intended.

9. What’s the last photo on your phone? 
My grandson who has just turned seven months old. He is so stinking cute!

10. Two of your favourite movies? 
I don't have a favourite movie per se, but I do like a good mystery thriller or apocalyptic movie.

11. What's your favourite season?
Autumn, closely followed by winter. After the heat of our hot, dry summers the cooler months bring such relief.

12. Which famous person would you like to meet?
I can't think of anyone in particular, but if I could go back in time and meet some of my female ancestors and find the answers to some questions I have, I would.

13. If you could talk to ANYONE right now, who would it be?
My mother. She passed away in September 2000 and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't miss her.

14. Are you a good Influence? 
I like to think I am.

15. Does pineapple belong on pizza?
Absolutely!

16. You have the remote, what show would you be watching right now?
I'm single, so I always have the remote.

17. First Concert? 
The Bay City Rollers.

19. Favourite food? 
Pizza. Sushi runs a very close second.

20. When you were a kid, what did you want to be when you grew up?
My family was Catholic so I wanted to be a nun because they always seemed so serene, but then my mother (who went to Catholic schools growing up) told me what some of the nuns were like and that put me off the whole idea.  When I grew older I thought being an air hostess would be a fun way to make a living the only problem was I am far too shy and introverted for that type of work. If I had the chance to go back and choose now I would be a forensic anthropologist.

Until next time, stay safe and be kind to each other, Janette.

30 December 2024

Books Read in 2024

I didn’t set a target to reach for my book reading last year. I often fall short and I’m disappointed when I don’t reach my target. My final tally for books read for 2024 was twenty-one, most of them being in the mystery/crime/thriller genre that is my go to.

I didn’t have a favourite this year. None of them stood out as better than another, although I enjoyed reading them all.

I found two new authors, though. Charles Finch is the author of the Charles Lenox historical mystery series. Charles Lennox is a Victorian gentleman and armchair explorer turned private investigator.

The other was Will Thomas, who writes a Victorian mystery series featuring Cyrus Barker, a Scottish detective or “private enquiry agent,” as he likes to be known, and his Welsh assistant, Thomas Llewelyn. I’m a sucker for anything set in Victorian England, and these books did not disappoint. 

Search the Dark by Charles Todd

Inspector Ian Rutledge, haunted by memories of World War I and the harrowing presence of Hamish, a dead soldier, is "a superb characterization of a man whose wounds have made him a stranger in his own land." (The New York Times Book Review)

A dead woman and two missing children bring Inspector Rutledge to the lovely Dorset town of Singleton Magna, where the truth lies buried with the dead. A tormented veteran whose family died in an enemy bombing is the chief suspect. Dubious, Rutledge presses on to find the real killer. And when another body is found in the rich Dorset earth, his quest reaches into the secret lives of villagers and Londoners whose privileged positions and private passions give them every reason to thwart him. Someone is protecting a murderer. And two children are out there, somewhere, in the dark....

Shroud for a Nightingale by P. D. James

The young women of Nightingale House are there to learn to nurse and comfort the suffering. But when one of the students plays patient in a demonstration of nursing skills, she is horribly, brutally killed. Another student dies equally mysteriously, and it is up to Adam Dalgliesh of Scotland Yard to unmask a killer who has decided to prescribe murder as the cure for all ills.

Mrs. Jeffries Rocks the Boat by Emily Brightwell

When Mirabelle Daws is murdered while making an unexpected call on her sister, traveling all the way from Australia, Inspector Witherspoon and Mrs. Jeffries investigate, uncovering evidence of foul play in the most unlikely places

Rise of the Ranger by Phillip C. Quaintrell (audio book)

Mankind has lorded over the land of Illian for a thousand years, building on the ruins left by the elves, as if it were their birthright. A thousand years is a long time for an immortal race to see the truth of things, a truth that has remained unsaid for a millennium - elves are superior. They are faster, stronger and connected to the magical realm in a way that man could never grasp. Illian should belong to them.

Unaware of the shadow that looms in the east, the six kingdoms of man are fractured, unallied, and clawing at each other’s gates for more power.

This isn’t just war set to ravage the land, but a slaughter - the world of man cannot hope to survive.

Thrown into the heart of this war is a man known by many names; an Outlander of the wilds, an assassin, a ranger. Asher was born a thousand years ago, to a life he doesn’t remember. Forty years of brutal training and killing for money has beaten the earliest years of his life away, leaving his ties to the oldest of evils a mystery to all…

The September Society by Charles Finch 

In the small hours of the morning one fall day in 1866, a frantic widow visits detective Charles Lenox. Lady Annabelle’s problem is simple: her beloved son, George, has vanished from his room at the University of Oxford. When Lenox visits his alma mater to investigate, he discovers a series of bizarre clues, including a murdered cat and a card cryptically referring to the September Society.

Then, just as Lenox realizes that the case may be deeper than it appears, a student dies, the victim of foul play.

What could the September Society have to do with it? What specter, returned from the past, is haunting gentle Oxford? Lenox, with the support of his devoted friends in London’s upper crust, must race to discover the truth before it comes searching for him, and dangerously close to home.

The Woman in the Water by Charles Finch

London, 1850: A young Charles Lenox struggles to make a name for himself as a detective...without a single case. Scotland Yard refuses to take him seriously and his friends deride him for attempting a profession at all. But when an anonymous writer sends a letter to the paper claiming to have committed the perfect crime--and promising to kill again--Lenox is convinced that this is his chance to prove himself.

The writer's first victim is a young woman whose body is found in a naval trunk, caught up in the rushes of a small islets in the middle of the Thames. With few clues to go on, Lenox endeavors to solve the crime before another innocent life is lost. When the killer's sights are turned toward those whom Lenox holds most dear, the stakes are raised and Lenox is trapped in a desperate game of cat and mouse.

In the tradition of Sherlock Holmes, this newest mystery in the Charles Lenox series pits the young detective against a maniacal murderer who would give Professor Moriarty a run for his money.

Murder at the Fitzwilliam by Jim Eldridge

After rising to prominence for his role investigating the case of Jack the Ripper, former Detective Inspector Daniel Wilson is now retired. Known for his intelligence, investigative skills, and most of all his discretion, he’s often consulted when a case must be solved quickly and quietly. So when a body is found in the Egyptian Collection of the Fitzwilliam Museum in Cambridge, Wilson is called in.

As he tries to uncover the identity of the dead man and the circumstances surrounding his demise, Wilson must contend with an unhelpful police Inspector, and more alarmingly, Abigail McKenzie, the archaeologist who discovered the body and is determined to protect the Egyptian collection. Can they find a way to work together to solve the mystery?

The Last Passenger by Charles Finch

London, 1855: A young and eager Charles Lenox faces his toughest case yet: a murder without a single clue. Slumped in a first-class car at Paddington Station is the body of a young, handsome gentleman. He has no luggage, empty pockets, and no sign of violence upon his person - yet Lenox knows instantly that it's not a natural death.

Pursuing the investigation against the wishes of Scotland Yard, the detective encounters every obstacle London in 1855 has to offer, from obstinate royalty to class prejudice to the intense grief of his closest friend. Written in Charles Finch's unmistakably warm, witty, and winning voice, The Last Passenger is a cunning and deeply satisfying conclusion to the journey begun in The Woman in the Water and The Vanishing Man.

Some Danger Involved by Will Thomas

An atmospheric debut novel set on the gritty streets of Victorian London, Some Danger Involved introduces detective Cyrus Barker and his apprentice, Thomas Llewelyn, as they work to solve the gruesome murder of a young scholar.

When a student bearing a striking resemblance to artists' renderings of Jesus Christ is found murdered -- by crucifixion -- in London's Jewish ghetto, 19th-century private detective Barker must hire an assistant to help him solve the sinister case. Out of all who answer an ad for a position with "some danger involved," the eccentric and enigmatic Barker chooses downtrodden Llewelyn, a gutsy young man whose murky past includes recent stints at both an Oxford college and an Oxford prison.


As Llewelyn learns the ropes of his position, he is drawn deeper and deeper into Barker's peculiar world of vigilante detective work, as well as the dark heart of London's teeming underworld. Together they pass through chophouses, stables, and clandestine tea rooms, tangling with the early Italian mafia, a mad professor of eugenics, and other shadowy figures, inching ever closer to the shocking truth behind the murder.

An Echo of Murder by Anne Perry

When a Hungarian immigrant is dismembered near London's River Thames, Commander Monk is called to the eerie scene, where 16 candles surround the corpse. As identical murders pop up around the city, Monk confronts the unsettling options: could it be the work of a secret society? A serial madman? Or is a xenophobic Brit targeting foreigners?

A local doctor who speaks Hungarian from his days on the battlefield may be able to help, but his own struggles with post-traumatic stress have left his memory in shambles. Could he have committed the crimes without remembering?

Fighting both local prejudice and the weight of the past, Monk and his wife Hester - herself a battlefield nurse familiar with horror - are in a race to find the killer and stop the echo of these repeated murders for good.

Murder at the British Museum by Jim Eldridge

1894. A well-respected academic is found dead in a gentlemen's convenience cubicle at the British Museum, the stall locked from the inside. Professor Lance Pickering had been due to give a talk promoting the museum's new 'Age of King Arthur' exhibition when he was stabbed repeatedly in the chest. Having forged a strong reputation working alongside the inimitable Inspector Abberline on the Jack the Ripper case, Daniel Wilson is called in to solve the mystery of the locked cubicle murder, and he brings his expertise and archaeologist Abigail Fenton with him. But it isn't long before the museum becomes the site of another fatality and the pair face mounting pressure to deliver results. With enquiries compounded by persistent journalists, local vandals and a fanatical society, Wilson and Fenton face a race against time to salvage the reputation of the museum and catch a murderer desperate for revenge.

A Painted Doom by Kate Ellis

Teenager Lewis Hoxworthy discovers a disturbing painting in a medieval barn that excites archaeologist Neil Watson, who is excavating an ancient manor house nearby. When former rock star Jonny Shellmer is found shot in the head in Lewis's father's field and Lewis himself goes missing after contacting a man on the internet, Detective Sergeant Wesley Peterson suddenly faces one of his most intriguing cases yet. Is Jonny's death linked to Lewis's disappearance? And does Jonny's best-known song, "Angel," contain a clue? It soon becomes clear to Neil that the painting—a portrayal of hell and judgment more than half a millennium old—holds the key to the mystery. As events reach a terrifying climax, Wesley has to act swiftly in order to save a young life.

Cadfael  by Ellis Peters (audio book)

In the remote Welsh mountain village of Gwytherin lies the grave of Saint Winifred. Now, in 1137, the ambitious head of Shrewsbury Abbey has decided to acquire the sacred remains for his Benedictine order. Native Welshman Brother Cadfael is sent on the expedition to translate and finds the rustic villagers of Gwytherin passionately divided by the Benedictine's offer for the saint's relics. Canny, wise, and all too wordly, he isn't surprised when this taste for bones leads to bloody murder.

The leading opponent to moving the grave has been shot dead with a mysterious arrow, and some say Winifred herself held the bow. Brother Cadfael knows a carnal hand did the killing. But he doesn't know that his plan to unearth a murderer may dig up a case of love and justice...where the wages of sin may be scandal or Cadfael's own ruin.

The Hellfire Conspiracy by Will Thomas

Roughhewn private enquiry agent Cyrus Barker and his assistant Thomas Llewelyn must track down London's first serial killer.

When Barker and Llewelyn are hired to find a girl from the upper classes who has gone missing in the East End, they assume her kidnapping is the work of white slavers. But when they discover five girls have been murdered in Bethnal Green, taunting letters begin to arrive in Craig's Court from a killer calling himself Mr. Miacca.

Barker fears that Miacca might be part of the Hellfire Club, a group of powerful, hedonistic aristocrats performing Satanic rituals. He must track the fiend to his hideout, while Llewelyn confronts the man who put him in prison.

Cadfael - A Morbid Taste for Bones by Ellis Peters

In the remote Welsh mountain village of Gwytherin lies the grave of Saint Winifred. Now, in 1137, the ambitious head of Shrewsbury Abbey has decided to acquire the sacred remains for his Benedictine order. Native Welshman Brother Cadfael is sent on the expedition to translate and finds the rustic villagers of Gwytherin passionately divided by the Benedictine's offer for the saint's relics. Canny, wise, and all too wordly, he isn't surprised when this taste for bones leads to bloody murder.

The leading opponent to moving the grave has been shot dead with a mysterious arrow, and some say Winifred herself held the bow. Brother Cadfael knows a carnal hand did the killing. But he doesn't know that his plan to unearth a murderer may dig up a case of love and justice...where the wages of sin may be scandal or Cadfael's own ruin.

The Adventures of Brother Cadfael by Ellis Peters

A collection of Chronicles including The Summer of the Danes, Brother Cadfael's Penance, The Heretic's Apprentice, Monk's Hood, The Potter's Field, Saint Peter's Fair

Dear Teacher by Jack Sheffield

It's 1979: Dallas is enthralling the nation on TV, Mrs Thatcher has just become prime minister, Abba is top of the pops, and in the small Yorkshire village of Ragley-on-the-Forest, Jack Sheffield returns for his third year as headmaster of the village school.

Jack and his staff struggle to keep a semblance of normality throughout the turbulence of the school terms, as once again the official School Log fails to record what is really going on beneath the seemingly quiet routine. Ruby the caretaker discovers her Prince Charming; Vera the school secretary gets to meet her hero, Nicholas Parsons; and Jack, to his astonishment, finds himself having to stand in as a curiously skinny Father Christmas.

Jack also finds himself, at last, having to choose between the vivacious sisters Beth and Laura Henderson ...

Village Teacher by Jack Sheffield

It's 1980: recession and unemployment has hit Britain, a royal wedding is on the way, and the whole country is wondering Who Shot JR.
Jack returns for his fourth year at Ragley-on-the Forest School, and there's a definite chill in the air. Village schools are being closed down all over the place - will his be one of them? As school life continues - Vera, the school secretary, has to grapple with a new-fangled electric typewriter, Ruby celebrates ten years as the school cleaner, and the village panto throws up some unusual problems - Jack wonders what the future holds. Village Teacher is another heartwarming, funny and moving tale from this classic series.

Fleet Street Murders by Charles Finch

The third book in the Charles Lenox series finds the gentleman detective trying to balance a heated race for Parliament with the investigation of the mysterious simultaneous deaths of two veteran reporters. It’s Christmas, 1866, and amateur sleuth Charles Lenox, recently engaged to his best friend, Lady Jane Grey, is happily celebrating the holiday in his Mayfair townhouse.

Across London, however, two journalists have just met with violent deaths, one shot, one throttled. Lenox soon involves himself in the strange case, which proves only more complicated as he digs deeper. However, he must leave it behind to go north to Stirrington, where he is fulfilling a lifelong dream: running for a Parliamentary seat. Once there, he gets a further shock when Lady Jane sends him a letter whose contents might threaten their nuptials. In London, the police apprehend two unlikely and unrelated murder suspects. From the start, Lenox has his doubts; the crimes, he is sure, are tied, but how?

Racing back and forth between London and Stirrington, Lenox must negotiate the complexities of crime and politics, not to mention his imperiled engagement. As the case mounts, Lenox learns that the person behind the murders might be closer to him and his beloved than he knows.

The Skeleton Room by Kate Ellis

When workmen converting former girls' boarding school, Chadleigh Hall, into a luxury hotel discover a skeleton in a sealed room, DI Wesley Peterson and his boss, Gerry Heffernan are called in to investigate. But within minutes they have a second suspicious death on their hands: a team of marine archaeologists working on a nearby shipwreck have dragged a woman's body from the sea. And it becomes clear that her death was no accident. The dead woman's husband may be linked with a brutal robbery of computer equipment but Wesley soon discovers that the victim had secrets of her own. As he investigates Chadleigh Hall's past and the woman's violent death, both trails lead in surprising directions and matters are further complicated when a man wanted for a murder in London appears on the scene, a man who may know more about Wesley's cases than he admits

So there you are twenty-one books read/listened to and enjoyed. I hope you find something here that you will enjoy reading too. What about you? Did you read any books last year that you enjoyed enough to recommend?

Until next time, stay safe and be kind to each other, Janette.


14 July 2024

The Vegetable Garden in June

After what was an unseasonably warm autumn, where the temperature barely dipped below 20°C, winter finally arrived and the jumpers have come out of storage. 

The temperature may have dipped, but the garden is growing well. I have two growing spaces, the raised garden beds which I have only had for twelve months, and the in-ground garden space that I created not long after I moved in here fifteen years ago. 

The in-ground garden is where I am growing all of my brassicas. There is broccoli Di Ciccio and Green Dragon, a heritage mix of kohl rabi, Red Russian kale, Long Island Brussel sprouts, and four different varieties of cauliflower, orange, Green Macerata, Snowball, and Rober. That’s not weeds you can see growing, it is volunteer poppy seedlings, and Sweet Alyssum. They’ll put on a lovely display come spring.

A small section of the brassica bed.

In all, I have nine raised garden beds in three rows of three. In the first bed, I have a couple of potato plants. (I have since added more). I love homegrown potatoes. They are so much better than anything I can buy at the supermarket. I wish I had the room to grow more, and the storage space to keep them.  

In the second bed there are daffodils and tulips that were a gift from my two youngest daughters for Mother's Day this year. I have planted over the top with poppies. 

In bed three is a heirloom mix of  beetroot and Purple Top White Globe turnips. It was also meant to have parsnips growing in it, but after three unsuccesful sowings I gave up.


In bed four there is some Little Dragon Chinese cabbages (also known as Napa or Wombok cabbage). A row of Red Baby bok choy. (I have no idea where the green one came from as I did not sow any this year.) Along the front of the bed there is four Red Kitten spinach plants. 


Bed five is the strawberry bed. I replaced my older strawberry plants in autumn and that is why these plants are so small. This bed will remain permanent and I won’t use it for anything else.


Bed six is the garlic bed. The cloves I planted were ones that were kept from last year’s harvest and are a mix of Italian White, Italian Late, Purple Stripe and Rojo de Castro. Along both sides, I have planted a row of shallots. After years of not eating onions because I didn’t like the taste of them, I have recently discovered that I don’t mind the flavour of shallots and leeks.


Bed seven is the carrot bed. I'm so happy with how well the carrots are growing this year, so lush and green. It is a real mix of varities in this bed including Black Nebula, Kyoto Red, Purple Dragon, Solar, and Nantes.


Bed eight is were I grew Beauregard sweet potatoes this past summer. I had planted them late and didn't think I would get a harvest, but I was wrong. 


In the greenhouse, there are the beginnings of my herb garden. Parsley, thyme, oregano, chives, and garlic chives.

I’m overwintering some tomatoes that came up in the beds where the tomatoes grew over summer. More volunteers that came up from the compost that I added to the potato bed will soon join them. Hopefully, by the time spring arrives, I will have tomatoes all ready to go out into the garden.

As well as growing vegetables, I am growing some fruit as well.

My Sunshine Blue blueberry flowering in winter. When this happened last year I panicked thinking I would have no blueberries, but I needn’t have worried as I had a bountiful harvest. I have since learned that some varieties do set their flowers in winter.

I also have a Valencia orange, a Navel orange, and an Imperial mandarin, (which fruited for the first time in a long time), raspberries, a Loganberry, a blackberry, a blackcurrant, and a Flame seedless grape. All grown in pots as I rent, and I want to take them with me if ever I need to move.

Until next time, stay safe, and be kind to each other.



 

11 March 2024

Sowing for the Autumn/Winter Garden


It's not a very exciting photo I know, but I wanted to post, so I have a record of when I sowed and what I sowed. These are all the seeds that can't be direct sown, and were sown on March 5th. The seeds that can be direct sown won’t go in until we get some cooler weather, which at the moment feels like it is never going to happen. We have had a reasonably cool summer this year, but just as the temperatures should have started to drop, it rose instead and we are now on day seven where the temperature has been above 35°C. Today’s high was 41°C, (105.8°F) as was yesterday, and the day before. 

Here is a list of the seeds I have sown so far.

Brassicas 
Brussel Sprouts - Long Island

Broccoli  Green Dragon and Di Ciccio

Cauliflower - Macerati Green, Purple Sicily and Rober

Pak Choi - Shuko

Lettuce - Green Mignonette, Freckles, and Butternut

Spinach - Red Kitten

Here is how they are doing after six days.





As soon as the weather starts to cool down I will be sowing all of the carrot, turnip, parsnip, wombok cabbage, and pea seeds.

There is still a week of warm to hot days ahead so while I wait for the weather to change I will order some compost to top up the vegetable beds, and dream of the harvest to come.

Until next time, stay safe and be kind to each other.




12 January 2024

Books Read in 2023

Hello everyone. Happy new year. I only read nineteen books this year. That’s one book every 2.8 weeks, which for me is quite a poor effort. Actually, make that eighteen. I didn’t have time to finish A Mind for Murder by P. D. James before it was due back at the library. 

1. The Essex Serpent by Sarah Perry

Moving between Essex and London, myth and modernity, Cora Seaborne's spirited search for the Essex Serpent encourages all around her to test their allegiance to faith or reason in an age of rapid scientific advancement. At the same time, the novel explores the boundaries of love and friendship and the allegiances that we have to one another. The depth of feeling that the inhabitants of Aldwinter share are matched by their city counterparts as they strive to find the courage to express and understand their deepest desires, and strongest fears.


2. The Apothecary Rose by Candace Robb

Once the king's captain of archers, now he must penetrate a poisoner's secrets...

Christmastide, 1363-and, at an abbey in York, two pilgrims die mysteriously dead of an herbal remedy. Suspicious, the Archbishop sends for Owen Archer, a Welshman with the charm of the devil, who's lost one eye to the wars in France and must make a new career as an honest spy.

Masquerading as an apprentice to Apothecary Nicholas Wilton, whose shop dispensed the fatal potion, Owen's dark curls, leather eyepatch and gold earring intrigue Wilton's wife. But is this lovely woman a murderess? and what links the Wiltons to bumbling Brother Wulfstan, ascetic Archdeacon Anselm and his weaselly agent Potter Digby, and the ragged midwife Magda the Riverwoman? Answers as slippery as the frozen cobblestones draw Owen into a dangerous drama of old scandals and tragedies, obsession and unholy love...

The Apothecary Rose marks the arrival of a bold and quick-witted detective in this expertly detailed, engrossing tale of medieval life-and death.
Once the king's captain of archers, now he must penetrate a poisoner's secrets...

3. Murder Has a Motive by Francis Duncan (Mordecai Tremaine #2)

When Mordecai Tremaine emerges from the train station, murder is the last thing on his mind. But then again, he has never been able to resist anything in the nature of a mystery – and a mystery is precisely what awaits him in the village of Dalmering.

Rehearsals for the local amateur dramatic production are in full swing – but as Mordecai discovers all too soon, the real tragedy is unfolding offstage. The star of the show has been found dead, and the spotlight is soon on Mordecai, whose reputation in the field of crime-solving precedes him.

With a murderer waiting in the wings, it’s up to Mordecai to derail the killer’s performance…before it’s curtains for another victim.

4. Cover Her Face by P. D. James

Headstrong and beautiful, the young housemaid Sally Jupp is put rudely in her place, strangled in her bed behind a bolted door. Coolly brilliant policeman Adam Dalgliesh of Scotland Yard must find her killer among a houseful of suspects, most of whom had very good reason to wish her ill.

Cover Her Face is P. D. James's electric debut novel, an ingeniously plotted mystery that immediately placed her among the masters of suspense.


5. Payment in Blood by Elizabeth George (Inspector Lynley #2)


The career of playwright Joy Sinclair comes to an abrupt end on an isolated estate in the Scottish Highlands when someone drives an eighteen-inch dirk through her neck. Called upon to investigate the case in a country where they have virtually no authority, aristocratic Detective Inspector Thomas Lynley and his partner, Detective Sergeant Barbara Havers, grapple for both a motive and a murderer. Emotions run deep in this highly charged drama, for the list of suspects soon includes Britain's foremost actress, its most successful theatrical producer, and the woman Lynley loves. He and Havers must tread carefully through the complicated terrain of human relationships, while they work to solve a case rooted in the darkest corners of the past and the unexplored regions of the human heart.


6. A Better Man by Louise Penny (Chief Inspector Armand Gamache #15)


It's Gamache's first day back as head of the homicide department, a job he temporarily shares with his previous second-in-command, Jean-Guy Beauvoir. Floodwaters are rising across the province. In the middle of the turmoil, a father approaches Gamache, pleading for help in finding his daughter.

As crisis piles upon crisis, Gamache tries to hold off the encroaching chaos, and realizes the search for Vivienne Godin should be abandoned. But with a daughter of his own, he finds himself developing a profound, and perhaps unwise, empathy for her distraught father.

Increasingly hounded by the question, how would you feel..., he resumes the search.

As the rivers rise, and the social media onslaught against Gamache becomes crueller, a body is discovered. And in the tumult, mistakes are made.


7. Mystery in the Village by Rebecca Shaw (Turnham Malpas #19)


Peter and Caroline Harris live a comfortable life at the rectory, but their cosy world is shaken up when Caroline's old flame Morgan Jefferson appears. He's intent on convincing her to pursue a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity - in America. What's more, it looks like Caroline's career isn't the only thing Morgan is interested in.

Newlyweds Chris and Deborah Templeton seem to be the perfect union. The old, unpredictable Chris has been replaced by a kinder and gentler man, yet he's still plagued by doubt. Where does Deborah disappear to for days on end? Why won't she tell her husband?

After the tragic death of his young grandson, Ron Bissett is further devastated when he loses his wife. Sheila Bissett has taken her own life, and no one can fathom why. But when an unexpected letter is received, it soon becomes clear that Sheila was hiding far darker secrets than anyone ever knew.


8. Bone Garden by Kate Ellis (Wesley Peterson #5)


An excavation at the lost gardens of Earlsacre Hall is called to a halt when a skeleton is discovered under a three-hundred-year-old stone plinth, a corpse that seems to have been buried alive. But Detective Sergeant Wesley Peterson has little time to indulge in his hobby of archaeology. He has a more recent murder case to solve. A man has been found stabbed to death in a caravan at a popular holiday park and the only clue to his identity is a newspaper clipping about the restoration of Earlsacre.

Does local solicitor Brian Willerby have the answer? He seems eager to talk to Wesley, but before he can reveal his secret he is found dead during a “friendly” game of village cricket, apparently struck by a cricket ball several times with some force. What is it about Earlsacre Hall that leads people to murder?


9. Lavender Blue Murder by Laura Childs


Tea maven Theodosia Browning and her tea sommelier Drayton Conneley are guests at a bird hunt styled in the precise manner of an English shooting party. Which means elevenses (sloe gin fizzes), gun loaders, the drawing of pegs, fine looking bird dogs, and shooting costumes of tweed, herringbone, and suede.

But as gunshots explode like a riff of Black Cat firecrackers, another shot sounds too close for comfort to Theodosia and Drayton. Intrigued but worried, Theodosia wanders into the neighbour's lavender field where she discovers their host, Reginald Doyle, bleeding to death.

His wife, Meredith, is beside herself with grief and begs Theodosia and Drayton to stay the night. But Theodosia awakens at 2:00A.M. to find smoke in her room and the house on fire. As the fire department screams in and the investigating sheriff returns, Meredith again pleads with Theodosia for help.

As Theodosia investigates, fingers are pointed, secrets are uncovered, Reginald's daughter-in-law goes missing presumed drowned, and Meredith is determined to find answers via a séance. All the while Theodosia worries if she's made a mistake in inviting a prime suspect to her upscale Lavender Lady Tea.


10. Dewey Decimated by Allison Brook (The Haunted Library Mysteries #6)


Carrie Singleton is just off a hot string of murder cases centred around the spooky local library in Clover Ridge, Connecticut. She could really use a break—but no such luck, as she; Smokey Joe, the resident cat; and Evelyn, the library’s ghost, are drawn into another tantalizing whodunit.

First, a dead body is found in the basement of the building attached to the library, and it turns out to be Carrie’s fiancé’s Uncle Alec, who Dylan hasn’t seen in years. But Alec has no intention of truly checking out, and his ghost makes itself at home in the library, greatly upsetting the patrons. Carrie and Evelyn work hard to keep Alec out of sight, but what was he doing in Clover Ridge to begin with? And why was he killed?

Meanwhile, the town council, of which Carrie is also a member, is embroiled in a hot-headed debate over the fate of the Seabrook Preserve, a lovely and valuable piece of property that runs along Long Island Sound. Turn it into an upscale park? Sell it to a condo developer? Or keep it as protected land?

As the dispute rages, there’s another murder, this time involving a council member. Could the two murders be connected? And could Carrie be next on the hit list?


11. The Peppermint Tea Chronicles by Alexander McCall Smith (44 Scotland Street #13)


To everything there is a season and a time for every purpose; it is summer in Scotland Street (as it always is) and for the habitués of Edinburgh's favourite street some extraordinary adventures lie in waiting.

For the impossibly vain Bruce Anderson - he of the clove-scented hair gel - it may finally be time to settle down, and surely it can only be a question of picking the lucky winner from the hordes of his admirers. The Duke of Johannesburg is keen to take his flight of fancy, a microlite seaplane, from the drawing board to the skies. Big Lou is delighted to discover that her young foster son has a surprising gift for dance but she is faced with big decisions to make on his and her futures. And with Irene now away to pursue her research in Aberdeen, her husband, Stuart, and infinitely long-suffering son, Bertie, are free to play. Stuart rekindles an old friendship over peppermint tea whilst Bertie and his friend Ranald Braveheart Macpherson get more they bargained for from their trip to the circus. And that s just the start.

Take a few minutes to relax with a cup of tea of your favourite tea and savour the affairs of the world in microcosm, teeming with life's loves and challenges. Little dramas writ large by the master chronicler of modern life and manners.


12. A Conspiracy of Friends by Alexander McCall Smith (Corduroy Mansions #3)


The universe seems to be conspiring against Freddie de la Hay and his neighbours at Corduroy Mansions, as they all struggle with their nearest and dearest in this captivating third instalment of Alexander McCall Smith’s London series.

Berthea Snark is still at work on a scathing biography of her son, Oedipus, the only loathsome Liberal Democrat Member of Parliament; literary agents Rupert Porter and Barbara Ragg are in a showdown for first crack at the Autobiography of a Yeti manuscript; fine arts graduate Caroline Jarvis is exploring the blurry line between friendship and romance; and William French is worrying that his son, Eddie, will never leave home, even with Eddie’s new, wealthy girlfriend in the picture. But foremost in everyone’s mind is William’s faithful dog, Freddie de la Hay, who has disappeared while on a mystery tour of the Suffolk countryside. Will Freddie find his way home, or will Corduroy Mansions be left without its beloved mascot?


13. The Quite Side of Passion by Alexander McCall Smith (Isabel Dalhousie #12)


Isabel finds herself befriended by Patricia, a single mother whose son, Basil, goes to school with Isabel's son. Isabel discovers that Basil is the product of an affair Patricia had with a well-known Edinburgh organist, also named Basil, who was, rumour has it, initially reluctant to contribute financially to the child's upkeep. Though Isabel doesn't really like Patricia, she tries to be civil and supportive, but when she sees Patricia in the company of an unscrupulous man who may be a wanted criminal, her suspicions are aroused and she begins to investigate the paternity of Basil Jr.

When Isabel takes her suspicions to Basil Sr., she finds that, although he is paying child support and wishes he could have more of a relationship with Basil Jr., Patricia has no interest in Basil Sr. taking a more hands-on role in Basil Jr.'s parenting, even as she continues to accept his financial support. Should Isabel help someone who doesn't want to be helped?

As Isabel navigates this ethically-complex situation, she is also dealing with her niece, Cat, who has taken up with a brawny and opinionated tattoo shop clerk? Isabel considers herself open-minded, but has Cat pushed it too far this time? As ever, Isabel must use her kindness and keen intelligence to determine the right course of action.

In this twelfth full-length instalment of Isabel's story, McCall Smith gives his readers what we want--time inside the mind of one of fiction's most richly developed women detectives, a visit to Edinburgh, and a twisting and tangled mystery about what responsibility humans owe to each other.


14. The Reading List by Sarah Nisha Adams


Widower Mukesh lives a quiet life in the London Borough of Ealing after losing his beloved wife. He shops every Wednesday, goes to Temple, and worries about his granddaughter, Priya, who hides in her room reading while he spends his evenings watching nature documentaries.

Aleisha is a bright but anxious teenager working at the local library for the summer when she discovers a crumpled-up piece of paper in the back of To Kill a Mockingbird. It’s a list of novels that she’s never heard of before. Intrigued, and a little bored with her slow job at the checkout desk, she impulsively decides to read every book on the list, one after the other. As each story gives up its magic, the books transport Aleisha from the painful realities she’s facing at home.

When Mukesh arrives at the library, desperate to forge a connection with his bookworm granddaughter, Aleisha passes along the reading list… hoping that it will be a lifeline for him too. Slowly, the shared books create a connection between two lonely souls, as fiction helps them escape their grief and everyday troubles and find joy again. 


15. Maisie Dobbs by Jacqueline Winspear (Maisie Dobbs #1)


Maisie Dobbs, Psychologist and Investigator, began her working life at the age of thirteen as a servant in a Belgravia mansion, only to be discovered reading in the library by her employer, Lady Rowan Compton. Fearing dismissal, Maisie is shocked when she discovers that her thirst for education is to be supported by Lady Rowan and a family friend, Doctor Maurice Blanche. But The Great War intervenes in Maisie’s plans, and soon after commencement of her studies at Girton College, Cambridge, Maisie enlists for nursing service overseas.
Years later, in 1929, having apprenticed to the renowned Maurice Blanche, a man revered for his work with Scotland Yard, Maisie sets up her own business. Her first assignment, a seemingly tedious inquiry involving a case of suspected infidelity, takes her not only on the trail of a killer, but back to the war she had tried so hard to forget.


16. The Second Sleep by Robert Harris


All civilisations think they are invulnerable. History warns us none is.

1468. A young priest, Christopher Fairfax, arrives in a remote Exmoor village to conduct the funeral of his predecessor. The land around is strewn with ancient artefacts – coins, fragments of glass, human bones – which the old parson used to collect. Did his obsession with the past lead to his death?

As Fairfax is drawn more deeply into the isolated community, everything he believes – about himself, his faith and the history of his world – is tested to destruction.


17. The Crime at Black Dudley by Margery Allingham (Albert Campion #1)


A house party is under way at the remote mansion of Black Dudley, and among the guests are some very shady characters. As they playfully recreate the ritual of the Black Dudley Dagger, someone dies. Pathologist George Abbershaw suspects foul play, and when a vital item is mislaid, a gang of crooks hold the guests hostage. Will they escape the house – what did happen to the Colonel – and just who is the mysterious Mr Campion? Neither the story nor Albert Campion is quite as vapid and slow as you might expect.


18. So Pretty a Problem by Francis Duncan (Mordecai Tremaine #5)


Adrian Carthallow, enfant terrible of the art world, is no stranger to controversy. But this time it’s not his paintings that have provoked a blaze of publicity – it’s the fact that his career has been suddenly terminated by a bullet to the head. Not only that, but his wife has confessed to firing the fatal shot.

Inspector Penross of the town constabulary is, however, less than convinced by Helen Carthallow’s story – but has no other explanation for the incident that occurred when the couple were alone in their clifftop house.

Luckily for the Inspector, amateur criminologist Mordecai Tremaine has an uncanny habit of being in the near neighbourhood whenever sudden death makes its appearance. Investigating the killing, Tremaine is quick to realise that however handsome a couple the Carthallows were, and however extravagant a life they led, beneath the surface there’s a pretty devil’s brew.


I didn't have an absolute favourite book this year, though I did really enjoy The Reading List. The Second Sleep was an interesting read, but the ending really let the book down. I also enjoyed The Essex Serpent, and I'm looking forward to finishing A Mind for Murder in the near future. 


I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and a lovely start to the year. I wish you all peace and happiness in the coming year.


Until next time, stay safe and be kind to each other, Janette.